24 March 2010

Am. Board of Examiners in Clinical Social Work: Time to Give Thanks for Honest, Ethical Organizations

Found this at Rights for Mothers, I know there have been a few comments left here about Janelle Burrill on some of my previous posts...so thought this may be of interest to some of you. 

Original:  http://rightsformothers.com/2010/03/24/american-board-of-examiners-in-clinical-social-work-time-to-give-thanks-for-honest-ethical-organizations/

24.Mar.2010 American Board of Examiners in Clinical Social Work: Time to Give Thanks for Honest, Ethical Organizations

Filed In: ABE, American Board of Examiners, Janelle Burrill, Psychologists

Many times, victims of corrupt psychologists (like Janelle Burrill) will be pretty abrasive in their methods of trying to get satisfaction for totally being screwed over.  Believe me, I know how they feel.  When injured parties are ignored time and time again, often with organizations sometimes "protecting" their own, the criticism can come quick.  I saw it from some of the comments on my old website (which Janelle Burrill previously gagged for reporting on her ethical transgressions) as well as comments on other fellow blogger's websites.  I read the pain in the victim's communications when dealing with the support group.  I still feel the pain as more victims come forward.  Although I had never said anything about the various investigations or the organizations conducting them, I read the frustration in the comments and winced somewhat…only because it usually takes a very squeaky wheel to make people take action.  I was grateful that the organizations were starting to do something though.

Which brings me to the American Board of Examiners (ABE).  When I first post on the revocation of Janelle Burrill,  much of the personal feedback I got from professionals in the trenches was that the ABE needed to be thanked.  They were the first to step up and take action, and this was amazing in itself when things can drag on in these processes.  They truly do care about the competence and the ethics of the members they certify for us.  So I thank Mr. Robert A. Booth, Jr., Executive Director of ABE and the Board of Directors for giving us an organization we can believe in.  Keep up the good work…there are a lot of "Burrills" out there.

Here is a little about them, from their website:

About Board Certification

The Board Certified Diplomate in Clinical Social Work (BCD) certification is a national hallmark of quality practice, recognized by insurors, professionals, courts, and consumers. The BCD is issued by the American Board of Examiners (ABE) to those who have, through an examination process and professional attainments, proved their ability to practice advanced-generalist clinical social work at a high level of competency.

In addition to the advanced-generalist BCD certification, clinical social workers may be certified for competency in Clinical Supervision, Practice with Children & Their Families, and Psychoanalysis. They can be found, with many details of their practice and background, in a free searchable-sortable Internet service, the Online BCD Directory.

BCD Clinical Social Workers affirm annually, through an audited process, that they meet standards for continuing education, currency of clinical practice, and state licensure in good standing. Annual recertification, unique to BCD certification, enables ABE to serve as an official verifier of healthcare services compliant with NCQA, JCAHO, and other criteria.

For healthcare delivery systems seeking a true measure of advanced competency, the BCD is the gold standard. In the U.S. uniformed services, the BCD is a criterion for up to $5,000 in bonus pay. Some insurance systems strengthen their practitioner panels by extending preferred status to BCD Clinical Social Workers, and many agencies reimburse for the costs of board certification.




17 March 2010

What Divorce and Parenthood Should Look Like

I’m not talking about the bit where he won the lottery and is going to share it with his ex-wife.  I am talking about the bit where they have been separated all these years (but recently divorced) and they are still friends.  They are civil to each other and still enjoy hanging out together for their daughters well-being.

http://au.news.yahoo.com/queensland/a/-/world/6949836/man-divorces-wife-wins-lottery

 

Man divorces wife, wins lottery

    A UK bus driver has won $3.8 million on the lottery but vowed to share his winnings with his ex-wife.

    Kevin Halstead, 46, and his former wife Helen, 43, received their divorce papers four months before the lottery bonanza, the Daily Mail reports.

    "This win will help my friends out and she is still my friend," Mr Halstead said.

    The father-of-one is also aiming to help his current partner, Josephine Jones, obtain a passport so she can take her first ever trip overseas.

    He's denied reports that he went out to celebrate divorcing his wife the night before he bought the winning lottery ticket.

    "It is not true," he was quoted as saying.

    "We split up 13 years ago but we did not bother divorcing until four months ago because of our daughter."

    "She is a very good friend. I go round and have cups of tea with her and her new partner. We have had a giggle about that this morning."

    Mr Halstead, from Lancashire, has driven a bus on the same route every day for the last 17 years but has vowed not to quit his job.

    He told the Daily Mail: "I don't want to pack my job in. I asked my boss for time off, a month maybe two, but I don't want to cut myself off from my friends and I really enjoy my job."

    The avid Liverpool supporter has also promised his daughter, Jessica, 14, a pony.




    15 March 2010

    Children Have A Right to A Relationship with Their Father

    While attempting to write up something coherent on this news article I found a post on RandiJames.com that I’d like to share with you.  I am still currently too mad...and worried for these little girls to say anything useful here!  But Randi James put it very well:

    Original Post here:  http://www.randijames.com/2010/03/children-have-right-to-relationship.html

    UPDATED!! AGAIN
    Does watching child porn match you a bad father? Maybe, maybe not. But who'd like to bet their own children on it? Any volunteers?
    No, seriously.
    A father was convicted of child pornography offenses a couple of years ago.
    His wife left him.
    Subsequently, the father has been trying to get access to his children.
    The court previously found that he had behaved inappropriately in bed with one of the children.
    But JUDGE ROBERT BENJAMIN ordered that the two children, who are girls aged 8 and 10, spend weekends with their father.
    Eldest daughter is afraid.
    To facilitate the father's rights, JUDGE ROBERT BENJAMIN orders that:
    1. the girls sleep in the same bedroom (to "support" each other), and
    2. the father place a lock on the bedroom door for the girls
    3. the father have an adult friend stay overnight when the girls are present
    Additionally, some UNNAMED Family Court counselor has stated that the girls don't pose a risk to the father, at their current ages, when they are awake, clothed, and together.
    How considerate.
    Think I'm kidding? See article here.


    A summary of the rights under the Convention on the Rights of the Child
    Article 3 (Best interests of the child): The best interests of children must be the primary concern in making decisions that may affect them. All adults should do what is best for children. When adults make decisions, they should think about how their decisions will affect children. This particularly applies to budget, policy and law makers.
    Article 4 (Protection of rights): Governments have a responsibility to take all available measures to make sure children’s rights are respected, protected and fulfilled. When countries ratify the Convention, they agree to review their laws relating to children. This involves assessing their social services, legal, health and educational systems, as well as levels of funding for these services. Governments are then obliged to take all necessary steps to ensure that the minimum standards set by the Convention in these areas are being met. They must help families protect children’s rights and create an environment where they can grow and reach their potential. In some instances, this may involve changing existing laws or creating new ones. Such legislative changes are not imposed, but come about through the same process by which any law is created or reformed within a country. Article 41 of the Convention points out the when a country already has higher legal standards than those seen in the Convention, the higher standards always prevail.
    Article 5 (Parental guidance): Governments should respect the rights and responsibilities of families to direct and guide their children so that, as they grow, they learn to use their rights properly. Helping children to understand their rights does not mean pushing them to make choices with consequences that they are too young to handle. Article 5 encourages parents to deal with rights issues "in a manner consistent with the evolving capacities of the child". The Convention does not take responsibility for children away from their parents and give more authority to governments. It does place on governments the responsibility to protect and assist families in fulfilling their essential role as nurturers of children.
    Article 6 (Survival and development): Children have the right to live. Governments should ensure that children survive and develop healthily.
    Article 9 (Separation from parents): Children have the right to live with their parent(s), unless it is bad for them. Children whose parents do not live together have the right to stay in contact with both parents, unless this might hurt the child.
    Article 12 (Respect for the views of the child): When adults are making decisions that affect children, children have the right to say what they think should happen and have their opinions taken into account. This does not mean that children can now tell their parents what to do. This Convention encourages adults to listen to the opinions of children and involve them in decision-making -- not give children authority over adults. Article 12 does not interfere with parents' right and responsibility to express their views on matters affecting their children. Moreover, the Convention recognizes that the level of a child’s participation in decisions must be appropriate to the child's level of maturity. Children's ability to form and express their opinions develops with age and most adults will naturally give the views of teenagers greater weight than those of a preschooler, whether in family, legal or administrative decisions.
    Article 19 (Protection from all forms of violence): Children have the right to be protected from being hurt and mistreated, physically or mentally. Governments should ensure that children are properly cared for and protect them from violence, abuse and neglect by their parents, or anyone else who looks after them. In terms of discipline, the Convention does not specify what forms of punishment parents should use. However any form of discipline involving violence is unacceptable. There are ways to discipline children that are effective in helping children learn about family and social expectations for their behaviour – ones that are non-violent, are appropriate to the child's level of development and take the best interests of the child into consideration. In most countries, laws already define what sorts of punishments are considered excessive or abusive. It is up to each government to review these laws in light of the Convention.
    Article 34 (Sexual exploitation): Governments should protect children from all forms of sexual exploitation and abuse. This provision in the Convention is augmented by the Optional Protocol on the sale of children, child prostitution and child pornography.
    Article 36 (Other forms of exploitation): Children should be protected from any activity that takes advantage of them or could harm their welfare and development.
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    This case is one of many, internationally, involving fathers' rights to their children. We can't all be lying.
    In the words of Judge Robert Lemkau (California):
    And you have an ex parte request calendared for tomorrow which I am advancing today. One of you is lying, and I am very concerned...
    ...I am inclined to deny you ex parte request. I feel that, if you're lying, there's going to be adverse consequences...
    ...I'm denying your request, ma'am. I think— there's insufficient evidence in my mind...
    ...Well, ma'am, there's a real dispute about whether that's even true or not...
    ...I'm going to deny it, ma'am. My suspicion is that you're lying, but I'm going to keep the custody orders in full force and effect...
    ...I reviewed it and that's why I'm -- my supposition, ma'am, is that you're lying, but if I'm incorrect, you can always bring another ex parte motion but don't misrepresent the situation. If you're lying about this, there's going to be adverse consequences. My supposition is that you are lying...

    Randi James: Children Have A Right to A Relationship with Their Father. I'd Like to Thank Judge Robert Benjamin on Behalf of the U.N.